10 things men find extremely attractive that women do
You know what’s hotter than a Lady who knows how to dress well? A woman who doesn’t care about dressing well at all. It’s not that men don’t appreciate a stylish woman, but there’s this idea that women have to be “cool” or “popular” or whatever else and most men want them to stop doing that in order for men to find them attractive. Men would rather date someone who is completely honest with them, no matter how terrible they are at romance, than one who tries so hard—and fails—to impress them with their ability to look good. So here are 10 things women don’t have to do in order for men to find them attractive:
Saying no.
Men love women who can stand up for themselves. It’s not just about being strong and independent, though; it’s also about being able to say no when you need to and not feeling guilty about it. If a man asks you out on a date, but he doesn’t want to go through with it because he doesn’t like your friends or family members, that shows him how much self-respect (and therefore self-confidence) you have!
Being assertive.
Being assertive is a sign of confidence. If you’re able to talk about your feelings in a way that isn’t passive, he’ll find it sexy.
Being assertive doesn’t mean being aggressive—it’s not the same as being loud or rude. Being assertive means telling him what you want, even if it’s something small and seemingly insignificant like: “Can we get some coffee? I’m running late.”
Not trying to impress us by talking about things we know nothing about.
Not trying to impress us by talking about things we know nothing about.
Being able to talk comfortably about your feelings, emotions and experiences.
You may think men want a woman who can hold her own in conversation and be witty, but the truth is that they’re more interested in listening than anything else. If you feel good when you’re talking with others (and not just because they’re paying attention), then they’ll enjoy hearing from you too!
Going to the gym.
Going to the gym is an extremely attractive thing that women do. Not only does it keep them healthy, but it also helps them look good and feel good about themselves. It’s not just a luxury item—going to the gym can be an essential part of your life if you want to stay fit and healthy.
Exercise helps with weight loss by burning calories; this makes people feel better about themselves as they see their bodies changing shape over time when they exercise regularly. Exercise also reduces stress levels by releasing endorphins into your brain—liver cells produce these chemicals when you exercise, so being active will help lower anxiety levels! All these things combined mean that exercising regularly will give you more energy for other activities in life too like having sex or talking with friends at parties (which are always fun).
Realistic body expectations.
Men like women who are realistic about their bodies.
Men should not be ashamed of the way they look, and women should not try to change their bodies in order for them to look better. Women who feel good about themselves will attract men more than those who feel bad about themselves because it shows that you can appreciate yourself as a person and have self-confidence. If a guy appreciates his girlfriend’s curves, he’ll want to spend more time with her!
Wearing heels that actually make you look good, not just showing up in heels because you assume that all men like heels.
Wear heels that actually make you look good, not just showing up in heels because you assume that all men like heels.
If a woman wears a lot of high-heeled shoes and has no idea how to walk in them, then it’s not attractive.
Not wearing makeup (or even knowing how to wear makeup).
Men like women who don’t try to look like someone else.
This is a no-brainer, but it’s something that many women overlook when they’re trying to get their makeup on in the morning. It’s so important to remember that men do not want you to wear makeup because they think it makes you look better—they just want you to be yourself without any additions or subtractions from your natural self. If you want his attention then he’ll know exactly what he’s looking at when he sees YOU!
Do: Be confident in yourself and your appearance without needing any help from anyone else (i.e., “I’m feeling blah today but this is what I wore”). This can be as simple as wearing jeans and boots instead of heels (or even flats), wearing a sweatshirt instead of an expensive dress shirt/sweater combination…whatever works best for YOU!
Being honest and open about your emotions.
Men are drawn to women who show their emotions, whether it’s through crying or smiling. It’s important for women to understand that men find being open and honest about their feelings attractive.
The best way to do this is by not trying to hide your emotions from the world around you—if something makes you sad or happy, don’t try to act like nothing happened; share those moments with others who might be interested in hearing them too!
All the things women think they have to do to attract men actually scare us off. Authenticity is more attractive than anything else.
It may seem like a no-brainer, but the thing that many women think will attract men is actually what turns them off. Men are attracted to women who are honest and open. They want to know what they’re getting into with a woman, and they want to know that she’ll be there for them in good times and bad.
When you’re looking for love or when you meet someone new at the bar, ask yourself: Do I feel comfortable talking openly about myself? Do I enjoy sharing my life experiences with others? Am I looking forward to spending time with this person even if we only see each other once every few months (or years)? If so—and especially if so—then consider yourself lucky!
Conclusion
All in all, men are attracted to women who are authentic. Being yourself is the best way to attract a man, so try not to be afraid of what others might think or say about you. If something makes you uncomfortable, then it’s probably worth addressing so that we can make things better for both of us!
